Your bedroom: routine or adventure?

Happy New Year and welcome to Escaped thoughts! I know I've haven't posted in a while but that's over and I'll be posting on the reg and I hope you stop by and tell me how you feel sometimes.... Also, if this is your first time stopping by check out some of my other posts.

So, has anyone seen that new video "Dance for you" by Beyonce? It's a super hot joint and the video is a must see.... Super sexy! At any rate I wonder how sexy dancing goes in your bedroom.

I had a conversation with a friend the other day and she expressed interest in spicing things up in the bedroom by dancing for her boo but she said she was nervous... I'm pretty sure it was for more than one reason but is nervousness common when putting on a performance for your man, your boo? This includes role playing... I've never done it but I would totally be down for being the robber and him being the cop... Seriously. Lol.

So this brings me to the question: How often does it go down in a typical bedroom? Besides the regular routine stuff that gets boring after so long... Even a turtle likes new rocks in his tank every once in a while :/

Ladies, do you dance for your man? Why or why not?

Fellas, do you role play with your woman? Tell me the cons and pros of this adventure.

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What's your price: The debate about everyday women who expect more when giving up the cookies.

If you're fucking for money that makes you a hoe (Okay, that's established..... I guess) What are you if you're fucking for "free"? Just a question

 Because honestly (Women who career in fucking for money) laugh at women who have sex for nothing..... Nothing is this world is free..... Why should the cookies be? Real talk!

I think one of the major problems is so many women are fucking just because and spoiling these niggas.... Smh. I can't lie I've been there. Just having sex and having fun but I've 1 nighted a couple of guys and it wasn't because it wasnt good..... I realize it was because there was no reason to invest if it's just for dick. Sorry.


Sooooo, let's be honest, in life nothing is free so why when women require more than just some dick she's labeled as  hoe????? (Fuck buddies or not) Is having sex just for the thrill better?  What are your thoughts on this??

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You gotta get your head game up!

^^^Have you ever wanted to tell somebody that???? I have! I can't lie...... (I personally think it's a shame if you're past a certain age and your head game (ORAL SEX)  is popped..... Sorry)

As adults, most of us have experienced sex and can say that it's good..... Real good when it's with the right person, right time, etc! But let's be honest, head is as important as sex. For some it's most important!

With that being said I have a couple for questions:

 What is good head to you? (Not just how you feel but what is she/he doing to make it good)

Have you ever had some bad head? Do you tell the person??? (Personally, I would like to be told so that I can improve my skill! I ask! Lol. Is that wrong?)

How do you know if you have some good head???? Believe it or not people still lie about that.... Do you have some "this works every time" techniques???? Do tell!

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That grey area between friends and f*%king

Friendship is important but these days it seems to get harder and harder to maintain a good friendship with somebody you've become physical with..... Why is that??? You meet someone, they seem cool, you both have established that you don't want a relationship (or not ready for one) and end up getting physical..... Is it hard to maintain a good friendship after that?

Why do simple things become complicated?  Like returning a call or a text (Especially if I see you tweeting!!!) Is that asking too much??? If you JUST wanna keep it sexual (without friendship), that's fine but let's get that understanding in the beginning  so there won't be any miss understandings........... I'll just hit you when I wanna hit and won't waste time in being a friend.

Am I reading too deep guys? Let me know. Because I've experienced this exact thing...... Quite naturally I keep it moving but I can't say it doesn't make me wonder. As a friend (male or female) I expect to get a return  call/text...... Especially if I send more than one. What's your take on the matter?



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Girl!!! I can't date him, he got on K Swiss O_O

Welcome to my blog (again)!!! Not really sure what happened before but I'm at it again and I would love your support...... Now to the Topic: Men and shoes

I know, I know that's a crazy title but it cracks me up and I've actually heard it before (Giggling) 

 I have tons of friends that look at the shoes fellas and make assessments about you guys! I'm guilty of it and I'm not really into shoes......But even I can't get enough of a man in some Jordans or some polo shoes.... I think it's sexy!!!

Sooo, Ladies (and gentleman) have you ever looked at a man's shoes and became uninterested in him???? What is it about a man and his taste in shoes that makes him all that or super wack??? Fellas, what is your take on it? 

The floor is open..... ^^^ An Escaped thought.